Engagement Session: Why and When Should You Have One?
Among the questions that often come up in the run-up to a wedding, the topic of an engagement photo shoot almost always comes up. Many couples have heard of it without really knowing what it’s actually for or whether it’s essential. Here’s some information to help clarify things.
Engagement photo shoot in Paris on the streets of Montmartre
What, exactly, is an engagement session?
An engagement photo shoot is a photo session for a couple that takes place on a day other than their wedding day, usually several months beforehand. Unlike wedding photos, which are often taken at a fast pace amid the guests, this session takes place in a calmer setting—chosen by the couple together—where they can simply be themselves in front of the camera.
This isn't just a portrait session. Above all, it's an opportunity to create a special, intimate moment—without the pressure of the big day—and to capture images that tell the story of your relationship even before they tell the story of your wedding.
Engagement photoshoot in Lyon, film photography, Kodak Portra 400
Is this included in a wedding package or is it an optional extra?
It depends entirely on the photographer and the package you choose. For some photographers, the engagement session is an integral part of their most comprehensive packages. For others, it’s available as an optional add-on, separate from the wedding package.
It is important to confirm this directly with your photographer when you request a quote, as this service requires its own time for preparation, travel, and editing—separate from the wedding day itself.
When should it be done in relation to the wedding?
The ideal timeframe is generally between three and six months before the wedding. This timeframe allows for several things at once.
First, it gives you time to use the photos for your communication materials, such as an announcement or a digital invitation, if you’d like. Second, it gives you a first hands-on experience working with your photographer in a relaxed setting, before the more intense pace of the big day.
Some couples prefer to do it even earlier—right after the proposal—to capture that special time. Others schedule it closer to the wedding, especially if they want their attire or chosen venue to reflect the atmosphere of the upcoming ceremony. There are no strict rules, just a timeframe to keep in mind so that the photos are ready to use before the big day, if that’s your goal.
Scenes from an engagement photo shoot in Lanzarote
What is it actually used for?
Beyond the memory itself, the engagement session serves several practical purposes that are often underestimated.
It helps you get used to being photographed. Many couples feel intimidated in front of the camera, especially if they aren't used to being photographed together. This session serves as a practice run under real-life conditions, which naturally makes you feel more comfortable on your wedding day, when time is even more of a constraint.
She creates content to help you plan your wedding. Wedding announcements, "save the date" cards, online invitations, or simply a post to announce your wedding to your loved ones—these images have many practical uses.
It helps build a genuine relationship of trust with your photographer. The wedding day goes by quickly, and it’s invaluable to arrive at that moment already familiar with the working style of the person who will be with you all day, rather than getting to know them in a rush.
Engagement photoshoot in the Paris Metro
In Summary
The engagement photo shoot isn't required, but it offers real added value—both emotional and practical. Plan to schedule it three to six months before the wedding, and check in advance whether it's included in your package or needs to be booked separately.
Would you like to learn more about this service and incorporate it into your project?